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Is this call or text really who it says it is?

A call, text or email claims to be your bank, a government agency, a delivery firm or even a relative - and something about it feels off. Here is the one check that verifies who is really contacting you, and the requests that are always fraudulent, no matter how convincing the rest sounds.

Subash Poudel5 min read

The short answer

  1. Verification is one action: end the contact and reach the organisation on a number you obtained yourself - never one from the message or the caller.
  2. No bank will ever ask you to move money to a "safe account". That single sentence resolves almost every bank impersonation call on its own.
  3. Knowing details about you - your card number, your address, your recent transactions - is not evidence of legitimacy. It is evidence of a data breach.
  4. A message from an unknown number claiming to be a relative who lost their phone, followed by an urgent request for money, is the "Hi Mum" scam. Call their known number before doing anything.
  5. Imposter scams were the FTC's most-reported fraud category for the ninth year running, with $3.5 billion in reported losses in 2025.

End the contact, then reach the organisation yourself — on the number on the back of your card, the number on the website you typed in, or the phone number you already had for the person. Never a number from the message, and never one the caller reads out. If the call is trying to keep you on the line, asking you to move money to a "safe account", or asking you not to tell your bank or family, that alone tells you it is fraudulent — you do not need to work out which other part of the story was false.

Pretending to be someone trustworthy — a bank, a government agency, a delivery firm, a relative — is the oldest technique in fraud, and it is still the most productive one.

The FTC recorded $3.5 billion in reported losses to imposter scams in 2025, across more than a million reports — the most-reported fraud category for the ninth consecutive year, and nearly one in three fraud reports overall.

What is striking about the data is how unsophisticated the growth areas are. The fastest-rising form was a text message about an unpaid toll.

The main forms

Bank impersonation

The costliest. The FTC found business impersonators accounted for close to $1 billion in reported losses in 2025, with bank impersonators the highest within that.

The structure is consistent. A warning arrives — often a text first, so the follow-up call feels expected. Suspicious activity is described in convincing detail. Then you are helped to protect yourself by moving your balance to a "safe account", or by reading back the code that authorises the transfer.

Government impersonation

Around $920 million reported lost in 2025, up from $789 million the year before. Reports rose 40%, and the FTC attributes much of that to fake unpaid-toll messages spoofing real programmes including E-ZPass, SunPass, FasTrak and TxTag.

The rest is tax debts, benefit problems, immigration status, warrants. The tools are threats and urgency — see authority scams, and government impersonation scams for the four demands that identify a fake agency message on sight.

Business impersonation

Retailers, delivery firms, streaming services, utilities. Usually a billing problem or a subscription renewal, and usually leading to a page that collects card details.

A common variant is the refund overpayment: you are told a refund is due, "too much" is apparently sent, and you are asked to return the difference. The original transfer is fake or reversed; the return is real.

Family and friend impersonation

"Hi Mum, this is my new number, I've lost my phone." Then an urgent payment problem.

The change of number — which would ordinarily be suspicious — is explained by the story itself, which is what makes it work. Cloned voices have made the telephone version substantially more convincing; see AI scams.

Colleague and executive impersonation

Covered in phishing vs spear phishing: a request from the chief executive, or a supplier changing bank details before an invoice is due.

Where the credibility comes from

Impersonators build trust from four ingredients, and knowing them makes the construction visible.

IngredientHow it is obtainedWhy it is not proof
Your personal detailsData breaches, brokers, earlier phishingWidely available for purchase
A correct caller IDTrivially spoofedDisplays a number the caller supplies
Correct brandingCopied from the real websiteFree to reproduce
Confirming pre-contactThe scammer sent the earlier textThey are confirming their own message

That fourth row deserves attention. A frequent pattern is a text saying "we will call you shortly", followed by the call. The prediction coming true feels like verification. It is not — they sent both.

Verification, which is one action

End the contact. Reach the organisation on a number you obtained yourself.

The number on the back of your card. The number on the website you typed in. Not the number that called you, not one from the message, not one the caller reads out.

If possible, use a different phone, or wait a couple of minutes before dialling.

The requests that are always fraudulent

No context makes these legitimate:

  • Read back a one-time code
  • Move money to a "safe account"
  • Pay in gift cards, cryptocurrency, or bank transfer to a new account
  • Install remote-access software after an unsolicited contact
  • Confirm a full password or full card number
  • Keep the conversation secret from your bank or family

Any one of these ends it. You do not need to work out which part of the story was false.

Turning that into a habit you can apply anywhere — to a caller, a stranger online, or a company you are about to pay — is covered in how to verify someone's identity online.

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Frequently asked questions

How do I verify who is really contacting me?
End the contact and reach the organisation yourself using a number you obtained independently — the one on the back of your card, or on the website you typed in. Never a number from the message, and never a number the caller gives you. Any genuine organisation expects and supports this.
Will my bank ever ask me to move money to a safe account?
No. No bank anywhere has such a procedure. If a caller asks you to move money to protect it, the call is fraudulent — with certainty, regardless of how convincing everything before that point was. Banks freeze accounts and block cards; they never ask you to transfer funds elsewhere.
How do scammers know my personal details?
From data breaches, data brokers, and earlier phishing. A caller who knows your address, your card's last four digits, or a recent transaction has bought or stolen that information — it is not proof they work for your bank. Treat detailed knowledge as a reason for more caution, not less.
I got a text saying my mum or child has a new number and needs money. Is it real?
Treat it as fake until you have called the person's known number and heard their voice. It works because the change of number is explained by the story itself, and because parents respond to a child in difficulty before verifying. Cloned voices have made phone calls more convincing too — verify on a number you already had, not one given in the message.
What is an impersonation scam?
A fraud in which someone pretends to be an organisation or person you trust — your bank, a government agency, a retailer, your employer, a family member — in order to extract money, credentials or access. The FTC calls these imposter scams, and they have been its most-reported fraud category for nine consecutive years.

Sources

  1. FTC Data Show People Reported Losing $3.5 Billion to Imposter Scams in 2025 — Federal Trade Commission, 2026
  2. New trends in reports of imposter scams — Federal Trade Commission, 2026
  3. 2025 Internet Crime Report — FBI Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3), 2026

About the author

Subash Poudel

Cybersecurity & Digital Literacy

Subash Poudel builds SafeSurf IQ, a digital literacy platform that teaches people to recognise scams by putting them in front of real ones. He writes the online-safety reference material here, working from primary reporting — FBI IC3, the FTC, Verizon's DBIR, NCSC and Ofcom — rather than secondhand summaries.

  • Founder and engineer, SafeSurf IQ
  • Writes and reviews the platform's phishing, scam and privacy curriculum
  • Works from primary incident and fraud reporting, cited on every article

Last reviewed . Figures are checked against the primary sources listed above at each review.